<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd"
	xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
>

<channel>
	<title>phillbecker &#187; Eddy</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.phillbecker.com/category/family/eddy/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.phillbecker.com</link>
	<description>the family, technology, politics, and ethics of a vegetarian, thirty-something, stay-at-home dad.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 19:01:12 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator>
	<!-- podcast_generator="podPress/8.8.10.2" -->
	<copyright>Copyright &#xA9; phillbecker 2011 </copyright>
	<managingEditor>phill@phillbecker.com (phillbecker)</managingEditor>
	<webMaster>phill@phillbecker.com (phillbecker)</webMaster>
	<image>
		<url>http://www.phillbecker.com/wordpress/wp-content/plugins/podpress/images/powered_by_podpress.jpg</url>
		<title>phillbecker &#187; Eddy</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/wordpress</link>
		<width>144</width>
		<height>144</height>
	</image>
	<itunes:subtitle></itunes:subtitle>
	<itunes:summary>the family, technology, politics, and ethics of a vegetarian, thirty-something, stay-at-home dad.</itunes:summary>
	<itunes:keywords></itunes:keywords>
	<itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture" />
	<itunes:author>phillbecker</itunes:author>
	<itunes:owner>
		<itunes:name>phillbecker</itunes:name>
		<itunes:email>phill@phillbecker.com</itunes:email>
	</itunes:owner>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:image href="http://www.phillbecker.com/wordpress/wp-content/plugins/podpress/images/powered_by_podpress_large.jpg" />
		<item>
		<title>Eddy at the Star Wars Disco</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-at-the-star-wars-disco/</link>
		<comments>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-at-the-star-wars-disco/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 18:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>phill</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Eddy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.phillbecker.com/?p=125</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My dad has a Wurlitzer Jukebox loaded with 45&#8242;s. This summer Eddy &#038; I went to TX to visit and Eddy loved punching the buttons on the box and listening to a couple of the songs. &#8220;Rocky Top,&#8221; &#8220;Flying Purple People Eater,&#8221; and the Star Wars theme in disco.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My dad has a Wurlitzer Jukebox loaded with 45&#8242;s. This summer Eddy &#038; I went to TX to visit and Eddy loved punching the buttons on the box and listening to a couple of the songs.  &#8220;Rocky Top,&#8221; &#8220;Flying Purple People Eater,&#8221; and the Star Wars theme in disco.</p>
<div class="flvPlayer">				<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0" width="360" height="260"><param name="movie" value="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/SW_disco_45_540x360.html&amp;autoStart=false;" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><embed src="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/SW_disco_45_540x360.html&amp;autoStart=false;" quality="high" wmode="transparent" width="360" height="260" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /><br />
				</object></div>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-at-the-star-wars-disco/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Pushing boundaries in school</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/pushing-boundaries-in-school/</link>
		<comments>http://www.phillbecker.com/pushing-boundaries-in-school/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 04:45:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>phill</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Eddy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.phillbecker.com/?p=105</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My almost 7 y.o. is in first grade. At the parent/teacher conference, my wife told the teacher that bribes and potential consequences don&#8217;t really affect Eddy. He won&#8217;t perform better just to get a reward. He&#8217;ll act the way HE wants to. And the THREAT of losing something doesn&#8217;t work unless it&#8217;s something really important. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My almost 7 y.o. is in first grade.  At the parent/teacher conference, my wife told the teacher that bribes and potential consequences don&#8217;t really affect Eddy.  He won&#8217;t perform better just to get a reward. He&#8217;ll act the way HE wants to.  And the THREAT of losing something doesn&#8217;t work unless it&#8217;s something really important. So my wife said &#8220;go ahead, try another sticker chart (for good behavior) or your reward system, but you have our permission to put him in time out if you need to.&#8221;</p>
<p>The class gets &#8220;pennies&#8221; for good behavior.  Every friday they can buy little prizes for at least 10, or save them up for an auction with bigger prizes.  We called them &#8220;bonus cards&#8221; when I was in school. Same idea. Good behavior +points. Bad -points/pennies.  She has another system where students can reward each other for good deeds witnessed.  ie. Johnny sees Kimmy do something nice for someone, so Johnny puts Kimmy&#8217;s name in the good deed jar.  Names are drawn every so often and they get prized too.</p>
<p>so, where do you think this is going?</p>
<p>Teacher: Eddy had a good day monday. 2 stickers.  Tuesday morning was good, but that afternoon he offered another classmate reward pennies to put his name in the good deed jar.&#8221;</p>
<p>HA HA.  He was following her example of bribery.  Now, he never broke a rule. She never said you couldn&#8217;t do it.  I can&#8217;t get mad at him for testing a flawed system and checking for loopholes and weaknesses.  I did say &#8220;If you knew it was wrong and did it anyway, that&#8217;s not good.  But if you were just pushing boundaries &#8230; I can&#8217;t get mad for that.&#8221;  He ended up losing the pennies and the nomination.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.phillbecker.com/pushing-boundaries-in-school/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Eddy&#8217;s love of the Film</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddys-love-of-the-film/</link>
		<comments>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddys-love-of-the-film/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 19:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>phill</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Eddy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.phillbecker.com/eddys-love-of-the-film/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Eddy loves Star Wars also. He had an elaborate plan to create SW VII with &#8220;like &#8230; 20 friends and we can make costumes and everything!&#8221; Here&#8217;s the outcome. Introduction Presentation]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eddy loves Star Wars also.</p>
<p>He had an elaborate plan to create SW VII with &#8220;like &#8230; 20 friends and we can make costumes and everything!&#8221;</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the outcome.</p>
<p>Introduction</p>
<div class="flvPlayer">				<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0" width="320" height="260"><param name="movie" value="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/P3282243_480x360.flv&amp;autoStart=false;" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><embed src="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/P3282243_480x360.flv&amp;autoStart=false;" quality="high" wmode="transparent" width="320" height="260" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /><br />
				</object></div>
<p>Presentation</p>
<div class="flvPlayer">				<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0" width="320" height="260"><param name="movie" value="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/P3282242_480x360.flv&amp;autoStart=false;" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><embed src="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/P3282242_480x360.flv&amp;autoStart=false;" quality="high" wmode="transparent" width="320" height="260" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /><br />
				</object></div>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddys-love-of-the-film/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Eddy reads to Ruth</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-reads-to-ruth/</link>
		<comments>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-reads-to-ruth/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 22:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>phill</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Eddy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ruth]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-reads-to-ruth/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;BOOO&#8221; &#8220;Ruth, do you want me to read that book?&#8221; &#8220;mm hmm.&#8221; [nods] &#8220;I&#8217;m cooking right now. Can Eddy read it?&#8221; &#8220;mm hmm.&#8221; [trots off] &#8220;Eddy, could you read that book to your sister?&#8221; &#8220;Why should I?!&#8221; &#8220;&#8216;Cause that&#8217;s what good big brothers do.&#8221; &#8220;Oh&#8230; OK.&#8221; the mic on the camera&#8217;s not so good, so [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>&#8220;BOOO&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Ruth, do you want me to read that book?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;mm hmm.&#8221; [nods]<br />
&#8220;I&#8217;m cooking right now. Can Eddy read it?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;mm hmm.&#8221; [trots off]<br />
&#8220;Eddy, could you read that book to your sister?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Why should I?!&#8221;<br />
&#8220;&#8216;Cause that&#8217;s what good big brothers do.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Oh&#8230; OK.&#8221;</p>
<p>the mic on the camera&#8217;s not so good, so turn up your volume a little to hear them.</p>
<div class="flvPlayer">				<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0" width="320" height="260"><param name="movie" value="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/P2272073_320x240.flv&amp;autoStart=false;" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><embed src="https://media.dreamhost.com/mediaplayer.swf?file=http://www.phillbecker.com/phill/P2272073_320x240.flv&amp;autoStart=false;" quality="high" wmode="transparent" width="320" height="260" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /><br />
				</object></div>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.phillbecker.com/eddy-reads-to-ruth/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Bob Ross makes my body feel funny</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/bob-ross-makes-my-body-feel-funny/</link>
		<comments>http://www.phillbecker.com/bob-ross-makes-my-body-feel-funny/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 18:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>phill</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Eddy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.phillbecker.com/bob-ross-makes-my-body-feel-funny/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Eddy was helping me pick out a video for him to watch while his sister was napping. I turned the TV on to set it to video, and Bob Ross was starting a painting. ME: Oh, this is Bob Ross. I used to watch him paint when I was a kid. Do you want to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eddy was helping me pick out a video for him to watch while his sister was napping.  I turned the TV on to set it to video, and Bob Ross was starting a painting.</p>
<p>ME: Oh, this is Bob Ross. I used to watch him paint when I was a kid. Do you want to watch this?<br />
HIM: uh uh. No.</p>
<p>we watch for a few seconds.</p>
<p>HIM: I want to watch this.  It makes my body &#8230; I don&#8217;t know. It just makes my body feel funny</p>
<p>heh.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.phillbecker.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/happytrees.gif' title='Happy Trees'><img src='http://www.phillbecker.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/happytrees.gif' alt='Happy Trees' /></a><br />
click the comic to make it bigger</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.phillbecker.com/bob-ross-makes-my-body-feel-funny/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Signing Time</title>
		<link>http://www.phillbecker.com/signing-with-kids/</link>
		<comments>http://www.phillbecker.com/signing-with-kids/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 19:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>phill</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Eddy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fun]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ruth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Shopping]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.phillbecker.com/?p=45</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Quite some time back, we caught an episode or two of a children&#8217;s show with a focus on American Sign Language. It was well put together, entertaining, and enjoyable for all of us. Then the local PBS station stopped airing it. We eventually discovered Signing Time at the library and have since borrowed every episode [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quite some time back, we caught an episode or two of a children&#8217;s show with a focus on American Sign Language.  It was well put together, entertaining, and enjoyable for all of us.  Then the local PBS station stopped airing it.</p>
<p>We eventually discovered <a href="http://www.anrdoezrs.net/jh115lnwtnvADJIFIEIACBGCIGKJ" target="_top" onmouseover="window.status='http://www.signingtime.com/?utm_source=cj&#038;utm_medium=affiliate';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;">Signing Time</a><img src="http://www.ftjcfx.com/68104h48x20MPVURUQUMONSOUSWV" width="1" height="1" border="0"/> at the library and have since borrowed every episode at least once.  These are fantastic videos!  Each episode has a theme and focuses on several signs for each topic, each signed by children and the host, Rachel. And the songs will get stuck in your head forever.</p>
<p>Eddy, our five year old, discovered that if he signs the things he wants, we have to actually look at him, and pay that much MORE attention to him. hmmm&#8230;.</p>
<p><object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/gGF3iC0o_1s&#038;rel=1"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/gGF3iC0o_1s&#038;rel=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object></p>
<p>Ruth, at 18 months, is obsessed with <a href="http://www.kqzyfj.com/lq118ox52x4KNTSPSOSKMLQMSRLP" target="_blank" onmouseover="window.status='http://www.signingtime.com/?utm_source=cj&#038;utm_medium=affiliate';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;">Baby Signing Time</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/h2103g04tzxILRQNQMQIKJOKQPJN" width="1" height="1" border="0"/> aimed at kids &#8220;3-36 months.&#8221;  She&#8217;s picked up so many signs in just the short time we had it checked out and is now very good at communicating.  Her pediatrician says that at 18 months her cognitive level is on par with many 2 or 2 1/2 year olds! </p>
<p><em>Update</em><br />
At 19 months, Ruth can say (pretty closely anyhow) the following:</p>
<p>Mom, Dad, Eddy, &#8220;Owie&#8221;, stuck, butt, asleep, red, fish, eat, &#8220;B&#8221; (for Ernie), &#8220;B&#8221; (for bird), mine, please, thank you, me, no shoes, toes, down, help, woof-woof, meow, wet, poop, hop, oops, wow, ear, noes, eyes, soup, shirt, juice, bottle, book, read, hi, bye-bye, moo, ball, hello, push, pull, hot, &#8220;ah-ah&#8221; (for count), fall, snow, nope, teeth, beautiful, back pack, pea, bite, food, stop, go, share, Here you go, hat, baby, frog, swing, uh-huh, boy, &#8220;elephant noise&#8221;, &#8220;rooster noise&#8221;.</p>
<p>She can sign:<br />
Owie (hurt), asleep, red, fish, eat, bird, lease, thank you, shoes, food, stop, share, hat, baby, frog, boy, blanket, sorry, blocks, more, build, bear, car, paper, draw, bunny, cracker, potty, brush teeth, sad, awake, grumpy, bath, &#8220;StarWars (made up sign), &#8220;bottle&#8221; (her own sign), cheese, apple, candy, cold, milk, cookie, caterpillar, monkey, gorilla, tiger,  train, popcorn, dirty, pig, surprised, all-done, school, play, penguin.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a lot of crossover words between the two lists, and we were never worried that signing would make her speech delayed.</p>
<p><object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/zHwg17I2hNQ&#038;rel=1"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/zHwg17I2hNQ&#038;rel=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object></p>
<p>Since Ruth keeps asking for <a href="http://www.kqzyfj.com/lq118ox52x4KNTSPSOSKMLQMSRLP" target="_blank" onmouseover="window.status='http://www.signingtime.com/?utm_source=cj&#038;utm_medium=affiliate';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;">Baby Signing Time</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/h2103g04tzxILRQNQMQIKJOKQPJN" width="1" height="1" border="0"/> again and again, I had to break down and buy them.</p>
<p>Allison has really taken to signing with Ruth, as well.  Actually, Ruth and Eddy know more signs than I do!  I guess I&#8217;ll have to watch more with them to figure it before they start secretly communicating amongst each other.</p>
<p>See if your library has a set, or if you can find it on your <a href="http://www.pbs.org/search/search_programsaz.html">local PBS station.</a>   Or browse the <a href="http://www.anrdoezrs.net/jh115lnwtnvADJIFIEIACBGCIGKJ" target="_top" onmouseover="window.status='http://www.signingtime.com/?utm_source=cj&#038;utm_medium=affiliate';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;">Signing Time Store.</a><img src="http://www.ftjcfx.com/68104h48x20MPVURUQUMONSOUSWV" width="1" height="1" border="0"/>I hope you love it as much as we do.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.phillbecker.com/signing-with-kids/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

<!-- Dynamic Page Served (once) in 0.439 seconds -->

